#2 Wanting to change him into what YOU want him to be
Ladies, coming for a woman I know
this first hand. We sometimes tend to make this mistake all the time.
You'll get with him knowing how he is yet stress yourself out trying to
change him to be what you want him to be. You can't change a man, he has
to want to change himself! If he's not what you want him to be then
move on & find what you truly want! I've said this before "Just
because he looks good to you does not mean that he's good for you!"
Don't stress yourself & him trying to change him when you knew what
type of a man he was to begin with! YOUNG ladies want a thug, a guy with
"swag" like on TV & rap videos but you don't want what truly comes
with it! The other women, the lies, the no steady job, street hustling.
You want your cake & eat it to. Boo it don't work that way! When you
try to change a man all you doing is making it worse & making him
most likely try to be more sneaky with what he does to begin with. Save
your trouble, tears, and headaches and learn to pick your men better!
